Recent content by Theoneaboveall

Hey DJ I can see that you have been active here since 2006,so that makes you active for 18 years!! So my question is,has this site actually helped you? I always want to ask OGs if this site has been of any help or is just a niche space for men who are down.

Great thread My top qualities would be:- 1. Boldness while been casual - this is easily the factor that has lead to most of my success. 2. Sense of humour - Always great to have,has helped ease the tension on numerous occasions but is generally a hit or miss with girls with only 20 per cent...

An OG poster!! You have to give the details man,about how it went,what you learnt from that experience.

Book of Pook is mandatory if you are in SoSuave.I still read it time to time for inspiration. But if you could tell us where you are in life and what do want going forward,the members here would be able to better help you.

Women love men who treat them like an equal,in both love and socially. I can remember a lot of instances,where I just talked to an unknown girl and I was better for it. But the crux is to treat them like equal human being,not like a goddess or a rug.

Okay,I get about complimenting oneself,but that's not enough to build a strong sense of self. The question still remains.

Great question,and I doubt we will get many( or any) replies.

Sorry for your loss.

Yeah,you are right. I will read more about rite of passage in other cultures.

Thank you for your helpful response. I will try the gym one and bucket list one. Notch too

Is it a good or a bad thing?

Well i used strength as a metric as it needs discipline,years of hardwork,consistency and planning; and when it's done, the result is something you can be proud of. A man needs to be strong so we can hit two birds with one stone if we have this goal. I know it's not the best goal to have,that's...

They are basically to push the boy to the extreme, as manhood is built and womanhood is preserved( the common belief in older societies). There is also a book called King Warrior Magician Lover,it delves into the need of Rite of Passage for boys to gain respect in their own eyes and become the Man.

Great question and my answer would be deep seated confidence,not ****iness, confidence with calmness. And discipline too. My answer makes me wonder did I want a shortcut to the above given qualities via rite of passage? But the thing is it's difficult to be confident being a new doctor as there...

Hello gentlemen This is a topic I have thinking about a lot and would like your inputs. So,in earlier times boys had to go through a ritual in order to be able to marry a girl. This was called the manhood Ritual and can be found in a lot of former societies. Some examples could be that the boy...