Recent content by sinnerman

The only enforcement mechanism you have is to walk away or start seeing other women and let her know about it in subtle way. Your rules will be enforced only if you have the leverage. And you can have the leverage only if she digs you more and is afraid to lose you. That's why its also important...

I agree with you on the part of the communicating. I think as a guy you should never push for the exclusivity. Once she pushes you for it, you know she doesn't want to share and is afraid that you're someone who can get another girl. At this point you can let her know what your expectations are...

RUN AWAY seriously. if the girl is having high interest in you she would never consider doing anything that would jeopardize the relationship. I wouldn't consider a serious relationship with any girl who is friends/in contact with the ex. I was very serious about one girl but I had to let...

if they're just complimenting then you need not react but just be happy that everyone is admiring the "ferrari" you're driving. However, with the guy at club you should have said that the girl is with you. By saying you're friends you sent out the message that you're in the "friendzone" And...

I'd say you should have sarcastically replied to that douche with something which would be very offensive. I think your girl's reaction to that comment was WRONG and cannot be justified in any way. Anything other then deleting that comment / unfriending that douche is a red flag. If you...

invite her home for a movie..rent a dvd (from a library for free), cook some pasta and you can get some cheap wine. and you can come up with some engaging story about how you learned to cook and so on. Also instead of getting her drunk with vodka learn a few ****tails and tell her you're...

So I'm going to this club where a few celebrity house artists are performing live. At the event board on facebook I made some comment about how I'm going for just one artist in particular. Some girl comments back "me too." I reply back "that makes two of us. see ya there" she replies back...

thanks. are you trying to hit on me ? *with a sly smile*

you did the right thing. whenever you've an ex lurking in the background its a BIG red flag. Go No Contact & maintain it no matter what. If you initiate contact you lose. Stay strong. All the best

i can empathize mate. i'm also at a similar stage. ive successfully done the whole no contact thing and am trying to move on however, her thoughts and memories wouldn't go. all i can say is take up some hobby, occupy your mind somewhere. that's what ive done. all the best.

I can relate with you mate. I'm 22 as well, studying, working part time and ****. And its been a while since Ive been involved with anyone. Ive a few plates but they don't excite me much. All I can say is occupy your mind somewhere else. Be genuinely interested in something where you can...

its been my observation as well on campus..they will have their stupid headphones on and heads facing downward on the phone screen

ive been through this. you gotta constantly remind yourself how she was attracted to you in the first place. it wasn't because of analysis, putting her on pedestal or making her the prize. you attracted her because you were laid back. that's the person she was attracted to. even if you're...

unless its a yes or a conditional yes everything else is a substitute for no. "i don't know", "let me think about it", "not sure" which usually screws a man's brain up is womanspeak for no.

no smoke without fire. proceed with caution and dont get invested emotionally