Recent content by msi

If a girl rejects my offer with an excuse that sounds possibly legitimate and doesn't give me a counter-offer, I do not assume she isn't interested. And I don't assume she is playing games. I just take it for what it is -- maybe she has something going on. Who cares? It's usually dates that can...

I agree. Admittedly, I had no idea what I was doing with women when I first came here. I learned a lot. But, what I learned was mostly through inference. I see posts of how people act (or how they don't act) and it's like looking through a lens. Half of the **** posted here is just poor...

Just to be clear, I haven't been friend zoned recently. I was only saying that I'm starting to believe that the "friend zone" is just a place where women put you when they're not attracted to you. You don't end up in the friend zone (unless you really, really act like you don't have a penis)...

Do something to take your mind off of it, it's the only way. The benefit of rejection is that once you're rejected enough, you sort of become immune to it because the reality is that it's her loss. At the same time, it's good to be a little self-critical (but remember we all make mistakes) and...

I think any straight male who is guilty of past AFC behavior is scared of the ending up in the friend zone again. But I'm beginning to doubt the existence of the "friend" zone itself. There is definitely a "no-****" zone, but I think the term "friend" is misleading. The girls who gave me LJBFs...

I don't think I could ever smile if I didn't cry. I'm an advocate of expressing everything you feel... then again I am extremely emotional. Just do it in private and never make decisions based on emotions.

The woman is irrelevant. Sometimes I open doors for people because they are positioned in such a way that it would take more time for me to walk through before them, so they can go first. Sometimes it happens to be a random woman or a date or whatever. As someone who cringes when he looks...

I believe that mind & body come before everything else. Hobbies like working out, writing, playing music, painting, reading, learning, basically any activity that improves your physical health or your intelligence or allows you to really express yourself is golden a way to spend your free time...

I'm not sure what grants you the ability to brand someone a loser or not. A loser to me is someone who is not happy with their current life and they take no responsibility for its status and they make zero effort to improve it. It has nothing to do with finances or tattoos or even using...

I would just text or call her when you have spare time and know enough about your week's plans to be able to schedule a date with her. I honestly don't think it matters when you text her as long as you made a solid impression in person and you are very precise with setting up your date. I don't...

Yeah I should have specified that before.

Just to clarify I didn't just "invite her over", I did mention we should watch a movie. Is doing this prematurely really a turn-off for the woman? I mean yeah it puts my intentions out there and all, but it isn't like I am all over her or giving her tons of time/effort/attention.

I've been wondering about this. They say most communication is nonverbal, ie body language. I would put IOIs in with body language. I bring this up because for people (mostly men) looking to improve their love life will start looking things up on the Internet and one of the major elements any...

What if she isn't 21? Coffee? That seems redundant.

A little but honestly not too much. In the past, I barely flirted/touched women and things were fine. My real problem was learning how to initiate conversations with them and actually meet women on my own terms, which is why I came here in the first place. The problem wasn't the success of my...