Recent content by GreatHornedOwl

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So if you're quickly chatting in text message, and she doesn't respond to a statement, does that count? Or only if she doesn't respond when asking a question? Thoughts, opinions?

If I have an 8.5 that's showing high interest, wants to meet and hookup, I'll do it. But, I won't meet up with her again. I'll pursue the 7 that won't put out on the first date, makes me wonder if she's interested and keeps me guessing.

I like to pursue low and medium interest women. It has always been like this. I'm not sure why. Any ideas? As soon as I know a woman is fully into me, it's a turn off.

People pursue people who aren't pursing them. #3 seems to understand this.

I would say this probably boils down to over pursuing. Initiating too many times, sending out too many texts, always the one asking to meet up. You're told this displays confidence, shows you're assertive, etc. but doesn't take into account that if you're always the one showing interest... what...

A good looking woman who worked at Hooter's making plenty of money, and still furthered her education by putting herself through law school in the process. A high value woman who is seeking a high value man. What do you want her to do? Date some loser eating Cheetos in his parents basement?

You do not send another text to a woman who flaked twice and then said I'll let you know, and never got back to you. It doesn't matter how witty or straightforward that text is. It's going to come off needy and desperate.

I knew this wasn't going to end well when right off the bat you said she flaked twice in a row. No woman with even medium interest would do that. You claim she was chasing you, but you were the one who approached her when you saw her again. You got her out, which was good. But 2 days later you...

I'm not saying to contact her 10 minutes after the date, but if you reached out first at some point and it didn't lead to a second date... you were dealing with a low interest woman. It had nothing to do with who contacted who first.

Waiting for the woman to reach out after a date? What do men not understand on this forum? We lead, they follow. That's feminine behavior to wait until she contacts you because you're worried about coming off needy.

Very low interest statement. Yikes.

Here's the the thing - it's mostly the simps that are banging these chicks. You can look down on them all you want, and criticize white knighting, but these are the guys that are getting relationships with these women and locking them down.

You guys are a little out of touch. You have to establish a conversation with a woman in text. They need to feel comfortable before meeting up with you. I'm not telling you to blow their phone up, but it's just not realistic to get their contact information and immediately try to set up a date...

These women knew what I looked liked. We exchanged many pictures before meeting up. And interesting? These women are more boring than me on my worst day.