Recent content by Gameplayer007

Better now than later. With STDs on the rise, you don't want to be included in the statistics. Also it may hurt for now, but one of the best things you can do is just go for a run, hit the gym, or do something that pushes you or gets your mind to wander away from her. Like hiking, fishing...

I guess to help answer that, what makes you think you became different? It feels like there's a bit of missing detail to give feedback. One thing I do want to say, and I've learned this not just from another guy but also from recent experience, women do not care about your self-improvement...

Im still reading all the posts to catch up, but yeah dude you need to move on. But take this as a lesson and learn from it. It sounds like to me, from the few posts here and there, just as you put her on a plate, she also put you on a plate too. Imo, the biggest lesson I think you should learn...

A friend of mine long ago gave me one of the best advices I've ever heard. As you're driving to your date, let's say you're going to have dinner or go to some place, you listen to any and all kinds of hit of your generation. He was born in the 80s and for him he listened to ballad rock. I tried...

*For a quick disclaimer, I've decided to go on a hiatus concerning dating and just focus on myself and my life* Having said that, I have a question for all you out there. What's a great way to build and create a strong sense of self? Maybe even a mindset where you are truly confident in you and...

First, that's the point. She rejected you, she's the one who needs to fix the situation. You give her the burden to change her mind and be unsure if her choice is the best. The strongest in the negotiating position is the one who walks away and you give her the gift of missing you. She can't...

I didn't read the story OP, I'll be flat out honest I read the first part about the "Ukrainian pickup" which made me jump to replying to say I respectfully disagree. Here's the thing from what I've learned: You could either stand your ground, let her know you want to date, and tell her to reach...

My thought then is she's become familiar with you and lacks the mystery of you. Without the mystery of who you are/ what you're doing, her emotions aren't engaged. She doesn't have the chase of figuring out who you are and has "her prize" already. It was nice for her to offer that in your...

OP I'm just curious but you said she moved in with you right? At what point in the course of the relationship did she move in? I haven't read thoroughly through all the messages but what comes to my mind is the old adage "familiarity breeds contempt." I know you said it "just happened," but...

IMO, if rituals were to come back there are two areas I can think of that would be focused on. The ability to be self-sufficient and developing perseverance through hardship. I bring up these two areas because men have these qualities more than boys. What I mean by self-sufficient is whenever...

I was waiting for this day, the moment I heard Pete got her initials and the kids initials tatted on his body. The moment I heard it all I thought was how his a prime example of a simp with tons of money and about to get wrecked by her. She really had no interest, guarantee. He’s not really a...

Definitely agree. If you don’t embrace discomfort willingly, a man doesn’t embrace his masculinity neither does he grow. One book I recently got and have been reading is Miyamoto Musashi’s 5 Rings. Even though it’s written for Samurai, it has quotes and ideas I’d like to say can apply anywhere...

These words couldn’t hold more truth than they already do. I foolishly pursued someone who already rejected me. Back then I was only a bit red pilled, but way more blue pilled. And I can’t even express how dumb it is to give a woman more chances if you think it’s going to work. It won’t. When...