Recent content by Carson02

The few females I have typically seen either are there with a one time personal trainer or are the dress up attention seeking types. The latter generally arrive with their men. At one time there were more, and most of the men would simp over them. Ignoring and focusing on a workout is best in...

Their cuckold community has over 1.5 million members.

Google the meaning of a girl saying “Aww.”

They go hand in hand.

The idea of becoming financially successful, fit, to find women is backwards. The idea should be about setting goals and achieving them for self betterment. Women will be more attracted to that than a man being obsessed with them, resulting in higher standard women to choose from.

Aww = nice guy.

It can be a good source for pre-screening red flags from someone you just met.

Different personas reflect their coping mechanisms from past traumas. They are experts at mirroring your personality which leads you to believe you are a match. Their need for attention becomes addicting. When you get drawn in they can’t handle being to close, or they fear you’re going to walk...

Having children outside of marriage is not a benefit, in that the man (assuming he makes more income) will still likely financially responsible as if he were divorced. Also, Look at the number of single mothers who list never being married in OD sights. This does not bode well for the...

Yes that is usually the cause and left untreated Addictions are definitely their coping mechanism, including drugs and alcohol. There is a definite line between legit people with BPD and those who use the label for their exes after being dumped, however. IE BPD for females and narcissists for...

Father was in the picture, but I found out she was abused while young by another family member. The importance of recognizing and avoiding red flags is paramount. I got drawn in by her assertiveness then she would pull away. I would withdraw and she would return. Getting too close meant being...

Met one who had Quiet BPD from a relationship standpoint. I was temporarily caught up in a mind f$&&k. Went no contact as typically suggested. Months later, she re-emerged and I rejected several offers to meet up. She admitted she then knew how it felt to be treated like sh1t, so there was some...

“Equivalent of a bumper sticker on a Ferrari.” Picture what they will look like 10 years from now, and beyond.

I was referring to your series of posts. In reference, to post #48, sounds like love is replaced with toxicity and lack of respect. Either moving on or reestablishing leadership in the relationship might help, IMO.