Recent content by Bokanovsky

Man, have some fvcking self-respect and end it. This is beyond pathetic IMO.

I think you're probably right about that. Always trust your gut. For what it's worth, it seems that this girl does not see you as LTR material. Maybe it's because of something you said or did, maybe it's due to factors outside of your control (or some combination of the two). At the end of the...

Sure, lets agree to disagree. I respect your opinion but I don't agree with it. I'm not saying that I know what it's like to be a black guy better than you do. At the same time, I think that my analysis is more objective, as it's not affected by personal bias.

I think this is somewhat of an exaggeration. We have a huge Asian population here and most Asian girls are dating Again guys. The ones who "avoid Asian men like the plague" tend to have a massive inferiority complex. I knew a girl like that. She was Chinese but came here as a child. She...

I don't see how that's possible considering that both black men and women come from the same socio-cultural environment. And it doesn't explain why most black women also prefer dating outside their race when given the choice. Anecdotally speaking, half the likes I get on Hinge are from black...

Do you feel that the same applies to black men (as compared to men of other ethnincities)?

I don't buy it. All women are insufferable these days.

Many minorities, and especially blacks, have been brainwashed to believe that a white woman is the ultimate status symbol and as a result, have come to prefer them over women of their own ethnicity/race. As Ali said in that video, it is a form of self-hate.

Cold-approaching random women and asking for their numbers is a fool's errand. It's not considered socially appropriate anymore, so your odds of success are low.

I don't think it's particularly odd. She has probably figured that signing a lease agreement would give her plausible deniability (i.e. denying that she was in a common law relationship in case the OP tries to make a legal claim against her in the future). It may also be a mechanism to compel...

Then do something else. You live the richest, mostly upwardly mobile country on Earth.

I don't know which "lusted after" city you are referring to but a nice house in a nice area of a city like NYC, LA or San Francisco would cost in the millions. There is no way someone making low six figures would ever be able to afford that. I don't know why people still use the term "six...

What was the boundary that she broke?

What you were in high school is completely irrelevant to how the rest of your life will turn out.

Where are you meeting these women and how would you are them on 1-10 scale? While it's no secret that women prefer tall men, it's hard to imagine that at 5'10, your height would be an absolute deal breaker. Un the U.S., only 14.5% of men are 6 ft+. If all women refused to date men of average...