Recent content by BeExcellent

Strictly out of curiosity I find 5. strange. You are in your 40s or 50s right? You've started seeing people around you pass away in all liklihood. As I've reached my 50s, lost my parents, other relatives and some friends, I've reached the conclusion that "stuff" or "things" don't matter and...

She will use her body/sex to keep you hooked. Like any good hook er. That is what you married. No matter how she tries to seduce you (to keep your financial support) you must say NO. Understand this. Her sex appeal is ALL she has. Therefore if you do NOT allow her to seduce you, you...

Ugh. Divorce her yesterday. She's not in Thailand & she is physically escalating. She thinks she has higher value than you. Buh-Bye. Get out ASAP.

My husband gets Kid Rock a fair bit. He certainly sports that look. He is a dead ringer for Christian Bale though, but with blue eyes & Kid Rock hair. If he's in sunglasses especially people, particularly women, are always coming up and asking: Are you a singer? What band are you in? It's...

Agree 1000%.

My portfolio is in "flyover country". I bought for + cash flow but have also had some appreciation and right now I'm looking very smart having done that. Problem in flyover country is that incomes remain low relative to cost of living. People don't have a down payment even if they could...

Hmmmmmm. Interesting debate on this topic. Yes we all need shelter and shelter costs $$$. I own houses where renters live, and I rent where I personally reside. Why? Well I am in the area I live in is for the sake of the best high school in my metro. The average house in that school...

Advice from the old lady: These things are very important actually and are the very things many men here struggle with. A large percentage of posts about why did this or that happen between a guy and a random girl would not exist if these skills were more developed in some of the guys. Women...

Patience, financial freedom, levity, health.

^^^This. Very simple.

Advice from the old lady: "Mom. Relax already. I'm enjoying life & we will have to see how it goes."

Agree with the others who have said she doesn't want to do that with you OP. Obviously she's a plate not a GF. Presumably there is a reason you've not promoted her already. If she is the sort of plate who is casual FWB and she openly talks about escapades like that & then won't with you then...

That could very well be true. We'll never know, lol.

Not true at all. The broke guy isn't going to have the class or elegance required to navigate such an environment. People who are well heeled or posh behave a certain way. They speak a certain way. The broke guy who comes into money isn't going to learn all that stuff over night even if he...

The chat room chick? No idea. Maybe she routinely did stuff like that, maybe she was horny, etc Maybe she thought my husband was full of shjt or full of himself, who knows (and he probably was full of himself at that time.) Maybe she was married & wanted to get down & dirty. Who knows. It...