Recent content by Aristippus

Money & Muscle, Just a quick question. Is there any particular subject that your wife argues with you about? I also noticed you said this has been going on for a year or so. Was there anything that may have happened of possibly friends she started spending time with that are a bad influence...

Although her intentions are good, Be excellent is clueless about this matter. She will never be in a man's shoes in this matter so her personal experience or lack of is irrelevant. Go to a parallel universe where the judicial systems are stacked highly in favor of men and completely biased...

Money and Muscle: It sounds like at the root of it all you are living with a very difficult, argumentative woman. You have your flaws too but that's not the point. On the journey to improving yourself, you shouldn't have to feel like you're always in the middle of some kind of battle with a...

Notice if she increases the frequency, duration, and intensity of the physical touching and give positive physical responses.

You put yourself in her general proximity but you allow her to close the space. Allow her to inch closer and closer to you during conversation. After a conversation if she leans in for a hug or to kiss you on the cheek, then you let her. You can respond by gently brushing her arm after she hugs...

Women are very predictable. There are things that women do that they aren't even aware of. Even the woman responding to your post did things she was totally unaware of in her dating years. She might not be aware of these things but she does them too. A woman that is attracted to you will behave...

There are ALWAYS strings attached. Open marriages almost never end well. There are too many strong feelings and too many people involved.

You could always go to the rooftop bar with a single friend to meet the single women there. They are out with their female friends (or friend) and are buying their own drinks. At that point if you meet someone you hit it off with, exchange numbers and meet her at the same place another time (or...

As a general rule men have to assume that most women are not good people. Especially from a dating/marriage/romantic perspective. Your big sister that treats you great will treat her husband like crap. Your aunt that loves you to death will think it's perfectly ok to make your uncle's life...

Women are like children. They can love you and still try to see what they can get away with. Women need to be led but sometimes will behave like brats that need to be put in their place. They need leadership but sometimes they resist it through bratty or rude behaviors. In a sense they are the...

More signs of genuine desire from experience: She says you're destined to be together or that you're her soul mate. She says "Thank you." after sex. She takes initiative in the bedroom. She cooks for you or does favors for you. She says she can't live without you. She buys you a gift or gifts...

Let me guess. You work for Godiva.

Some behaviors of genuine desire I've experienced: A woman who is jealous and wants you to herself. A woman sending you love songs by text. Saying she never wants you to leave her. Telling you she enjoys spending time with you. Having a good sex life and her telling you how much she enjoys sex...

Patb. Yeah I think that women are too used to the instant approval and take it for granted. The men who approach women randomly and meet them that way, if it works for them that's fine. I don't personally think it's the best way for the majority. You have one group, say guys like MikeD who...

I think a large number of men have a desperate mentality and think it's a good idea to approach a woman who is on her way somewhere doing something. You should simply pick situations and places where people go to be social and socialize. Don't assume that because she is physically attractive...