This thread is devoted toward making an index of all the tactics and stratigies women use to manipulate men and get them to do their bidding. Why do we need a thread such of this? Two reasons-
1. I have no desire to go through life being a smuck who is used by and dosen't get what he wants from women.
2. Evidence in my life has made me believe that women get extremely turned on by men that they cannot manipulate/control.
So then, how do women manipulate? I am of the opinion that nearly every form of manipulation that women employ is dependent upon elicitiing an emotional response. Emotions are the mechanism by which women elicit or modify the behaviors of males they wish to control. This is done either proactivally or retroactivally.
Proactive manipulation is done to elicit desired behaviors. I believe that women use this manipulation to either test men or when they "sense weakness". Examples of this behavior include statements such as:
"A real Gentleman woud..."
"I want a man who knows how to treat me right"
"It would be really nice if you..."
Retroactive manipulation is done after a woman has (or hasn't) gotten something she wanted out of a man. It is done to reinforce (or eliminate) the behavior as a sort of pavlovian reinforcement (or punishment). Examples include:
"You're such a nice guy!"
"You're so different from all the other guys!"
"You're such an a$$hole!"
(which really translates to you're not falling for my manipulations and doing what I want you to)
In my expirenece, the three most common emotions used are:
Shame
Guilt
Praise
Women also use attention, or lack there of, to indicate their pleasure/displeasure with a given man.
Well, with all that said- we've come to the question that's on everyone's mind. "How does one avoid being manipulated by women?" There are probably multiple methods, but in my expirence the most surefire way to avoid manipulation is to simply not give two ****s about what a women says or feels about what you think or do. Just do what you want regardless of what she says or does. By making your own happiness the barameter of success in life, you make yourself completely immune to the manipulations of women. Be the a$$hole, avoid being manipulated, and win at life.
1. I have no desire to go through life being a smuck who is used by and dosen't get what he wants from women.
2. Evidence in my life has made me believe that women get extremely turned on by men that they cannot manipulate/control.
So then, how do women manipulate? I am of the opinion that nearly every form of manipulation that women employ is dependent upon elicitiing an emotional response. Emotions are the mechanism by which women elicit or modify the behaviors of males they wish to control. This is done either proactivally or retroactivally.
Proactive manipulation is done to elicit desired behaviors. I believe that women use this manipulation to either test men or when they "sense weakness". Examples of this behavior include statements such as:
"A real Gentleman woud..."
"I want a man who knows how to treat me right"
"It would be really nice if you..."
Retroactive manipulation is done after a woman has (or hasn't) gotten something she wanted out of a man. It is done to reinforce (or eliminate) the behavior as a sort of pavlovian reinforcement (or punishment). Examples include:
"You're such a nice guy!"
"You're so different from all the other guys!"
"You're such an a$$hole!"
(which really translates to you're not falling for my manipulations and doing what I want you to)
In my expirenece, the three most common emotions used are:
Shame
Guilt
Praise
Women also use attention, or lack there of, to indicate their pleasure/displeasure with a given man.
Well, with all that said- we've come to the question that's on everyone's mind. "How does one avoid being manipulated by women?" There are probably multiple methods, but in my expirence the most surefire way to avoid manipulation is to simply not give two ****s about what a women says or feels about what you think or do. Just do what you want regardless of what she says or does. By making your own happiness the barameter of success in life, you make yourself completely immune to the manipulations of women. Be the a$$hole, avoid being manipulated, and win at life.
